Monday, September 10, 2007
3:40 PMwednesday.
was sleeping. suddenly my grandmother shook me up and said, still crying, "yr grandfather died in cwp..." i was in shock. changed, and went to cwp with grandmother. he died in a bus, he was carrying heavy stuff, and went up the bus, sleep, and died. bus driver didn't noe, cos pepo tink he sleeping.
there he was, lying in his slumber. i couldn't take in the harsh reality. i took a few steps back, still looking at the man who cared so much for me, and called my mum, saying that i saw him. i broke into silent sobs...
relatives all came, aunts planned his funeral. i finall register the death in my mind, that i wasn't going to see him smile again
thursday.
woke up at 8. the tentage for the funeral was set up ystd. went down to see. then grandmother ask me to buy medicine for her. buy le, came back, aunts/uncles, cousins, and parents all came. parents went to acknowledge his body at SGH. found something wrong with the directions of the tentage. called the person-in-charge, changed it, set up and arrange tables. body came. coffin too. many aunts crying. did a prayers in front of his coffin, almost cried. relatives came, served them with drinks and snacks until midnight. midnight, my cousins and i were told to shou ye [keep watch] over the body. at 4.30am sleeped. 5.50am wake up, change shift, and my cousins and i went back to my hse to sleep.
friday.
woke at 1.30pm. brush up, went to help below. serve and played chor dai dee until midnight and this night, i didn sleep, but kept watch to morning, 6+ am. went back to sleep
saturday.
woke at 1. went to help, and got some entertainment for my grandfather. until night. 5o9 nieghbours sorry for the loud noises. burn house, hell money, and other stuff for him.
sunday.
woke at 1o+. today he going to guang ming shan. did some prayers. walked the last round to see him, after that cannot see him in flesh again in life. cried. went to guang ming shan and pray, got a crematorium there. almot cried when his body was sent into the furnace. ate vegetarian food, and went back. dad and aunts settle the accounts stuff, my cousins and i went to my house to bathe.
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